I can't say my experiences synch with yours, friend. I have been friends with many wonderful ladies as sex partners, who have found out, sometimes with my coaching, that women are softer, smoother, sweeter, like we men have found and appreciate. And so they dabble with other straight women as sex partners from time-to-time.
I swear, the number of bi-gals/lesbos that don't know how to work a dildo! It goes in and out, in and out, NOT up and down, up and down! Just like your favorite man, when you do square off with a man, his cock goes in and out, in and out! And if you are lucky, he is skilled enough, and long and hard enough, to reach your deep sweet spot, your cervix. And he begins to smash and polish your cervix. We can tell if he has reached your cervix, because that's when those lovely, deep, guttural sounds start coming out of your mouth, like the growls of a she-leopard, or she- bear. Makes the hair on the back of my neck stand up, but if I am the man you are with, I just keep going stronger, deeper, harder. Until you lose the ability to speak, and you are in joyful tears. If anything comes out, nonsensical blabberings proceed from your mouth. I try to time my cumming with this stage, this state I have put you in, feeling my warm jism splash up inside you. If I can, I try to keep you in this state, kissing, fingering, licking, sucking you anywhere I can, until I can get hard again, so I can enter you again, and repeat the process over, and over, and over again.